NAS-JRB With Sincere Affection

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Dear Naval Air Station Joint Reserve Base of Fort Worth,

I want to express my sincere affection and appreciation for you.

You don’t know me. I live and work across the lake from you. But, I’m reminded of you multiple times a day.  You see, I live and work about 1.5 miles directly north of you. I really mean it. I’m in a straight line with the air strip, and I hear your jets multiple times per day.

I’m a pastor, so it isn’t to foreign for me to tell people I hardly know that I love them. As a Christian, it is part of God’s command to me:

“‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’” Matthew 22:36-40

But, I can understand why that might sound strange to you. That is why I said “Sincere Affection,” and added “Appreciation in “my title and opening statement.  Let me to woefully explain what I’m saying…

I want to say Thank You to the men and women that serve on your air strip, in your jets, in the halls of your buildings, and that walk around your campus.

Thank you for doing what you do. Thank you for training day and night, in the sun, wind and rain. Thank you for doing all of this so that families like mine can live within the safety of our borders. Thank you for potentially risking your life at any time, so that my kids can grow up in the relative safety afforded to us as Americans.

Thank you.

I often find myself outside when a jets is landing overhead. (I swear, if a pilot smiles, I think I can see their teeth.) When that happens, I often stop and pray for whoever might be in that jet or helicopter as it goes over. I pray for their safety, clearness of thought, and hand-eye coordination. I pray that they learn everything they have to learn, and that they do well at it all.

If a jet (or some other airplane , or helicopter) goes over and I’m outside with my children, I often take them into my arms. I point at the jet and say to my son, “Isn’t that cool! Doesn’t it look great!”  He usually puts his hands over his ears (since we really can see the pilots teeth in the cockpit) and buries his head in my shoulder. I pat him on the back and usually say, “That’s the sound of freedom, son.”

When I see your men and women in uniform around the area, I have to admit I’m kind of shy. They are eating, laughing, having a great time among themselves. I often desire to walk up and say “thank you,” and I’ve actually done it a couple of times. But, I get the sense that these men and women aren’t in it for the “thank you(s)” that might get thrown their way. I don’t want to embarrass them, nor interfere with their meals. So, I go on with the silent appreciation in my heart.

I must be some what of a fanboy. I admit it, I’m not ashamed of it. Just know, if you ever need anything; there is a small church down the way, (I would say, about 2.5 seconds away as the F-16 flies) who would be glad to help out.

Thanks again,

Tim

Time for Repentance

This morning has been fairly quiet.

I’ve been able to do my devotional reading, visit with a friend/church member. I’m also 40+ pages in on Bob Roberts Jr.’s, “Real-Time Connections.”

This is somewhat of a reread for me. I started it before, but I didn’t finish it.

At page 48, I had to stop reading, get down on my knees and begin repenting before the Lord.

Lord, thank you for forgiveness. Thank you for speaking through Bob Roberts Jr.

Tim

P.s.  I know the bible link takes you to a page that is automatically set to KJV.  I read it using the NIV. You can change it through the drop-down menu.

Dad “Rights” or “Privilege?”

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I saw this at One Sentence [dot] org.

Moma
After a small congratulatory yay for Hawaii’s gay rights, I learned that coming out to my dad wouldn’t just cost me another guilt tripping lecture, but the right to call him dad.

I want to focus on the very last part about her loosing the “right to call him dad.”

First off, understand that I use the term “Dad” as both a term of position and affection. Your’s can be anything you want it to be: “Pop, Father, Big Guy, Bull, …whatever.”

My Premise – I’m a Dad

I firmly believe that I have both a Privilege and a Responsibility to be my kid’s “dad.” I don’t have the “Right” to start or stop being my children’s dad at any given moment. While I may have the responsibility to inform my children’s view of my identity, I don’t have the “right” to tell my kids that “I’m not their dad anymore.”

The Stupid – Choose to not be Dad?

You see, that is what the above quote is about. A daughter came out to her father. Her father obviously vehemently disagreed with it and proclaimed that she can no longer identify him as being her dad.

What a sad thing.

The Consequence – Idiocy

He Forfeited his Position in her life, he didn’t take it away. He forfeited his ability to speak meaningfully into her life. He forfeited on his Responsibility to Actively Love his daughter.

In other words: As a “Dad,” He Is A Failure.

Not because she is choosing/participating in something he disagrees with. But, because he acted in a very non-dad way. He’s a failure because of his choice to not love her in the midst of the disagreement.

Our Decision

Guys, we have a choice where our kids don’t. We began making the choice the moment we decided to impregnate their mother. We make that choice every moment of every day.

Will we be the “dads” we are meant to be?  Will we be the kind of “dads” we have a responsibility and privilege of being to our children regardless of their actions?

I am choosing to be. Will you? 

Tim

American Politics

Thinking of American Politics brings fits of apathy upon me.

…just saying…

Actually, I do care. I care about our future. I care about my kids future.

But, I see very little enticing about the current crop of Republican candidates, and even less out of our current leadership.

Everything seems to end with a /facepalm…

Lord in heaven, I’m not looking for another messiah. You’ve got that one covered, and I’m extremely thankful.  All I want is a few things.

First, may we have someone that can string intelligible sentences together without a teleprompter or annoying verbal pauses. May we also have someone that won’t embarrass us on the public stage. Finally, may we have someone who will keep government as unobtrusive as possible? I’ve seen it fostering dependence upon itself. It’s breaking my heart.

Is that even plausible?

Tim

Almost Lost Christmas…

Darcy Says, "Don't Lose Christmas!"

I almost lost Christmas this year.

Luckily for me, a friend reminded me to not lose it.

Now, what do I mean that I almost lost Christmas this year?  I’m a Preacher! How in the world could I lose Christmas?

You know, I’m not all that sure. I’ve never let a lack of anything ever stop me before, so here are my thoughts.

Up until this point, we had no Christmas decorations up in, or outside of, our house.  We still won’t have any up outside, but I just got the Christmas Tree up.

We will decorate it as a family tonight.  There will be gifts underneath it soon, some from us and some from Grandma Betty. We might put the Christmas Cards we’ve received in the tree. You never do know.

But this is the point: I just now…the day before Christmas Eve…put our first decoration up. 

While we may be having a Christmas Eve and a Christmas Day service at church, we had no visible sign of celebrating Christ’s birth at our house.

That is what I mean when I say we almost lost Christmas.

Possible reasons for me (almost) choosing to not celebrate Christmas at home?

  1. The bombardment of Christmas by retailers beginning pre-Thanksgiving had gotten to me.
  2. The bombardment of Christmas music over the radio, tv, stores, etc. had finally gotten to me.
  3. The way in which Christmas has been thrown up over houses, city buildings, and retail shops make my eyes hurt.
  4. Or maybe it was that horrid Michael Bublé Christmas Special the other night… Where Justin Bieber came out “sagging” to do his performance… that really just pushed me over into Grinchdom.

I’m not sure.

All I know is that I had none, absolutely zero impulse to mark Christmas as special in our house.

But, I’ve been reminded that Christmas isn’t about what I feel.  I know it is about the birth of Jesus. You don’t have to tell me that.

But, I had to be reminded that this is an opportunity to teach my children in a visual-tactile way what it is all about.  They are worth being taught this truth. They are worth being taught this, and to celebrate this.

They are worth it.

Tim

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Author’s Note: Tim almost lost Christmas. His wife did not lose Christmas. She’s been reading Christmas stories to the boys every night; and most definately was keeping Christmas alive in the household. ;)

Unintended Consequences

That fly annoyed me, even before the plate came to the table.

He was mocking me. I could see it in the way he flew around my head.

There I was, attending the Ministerial Alliance meeting at Alba’s Italian Restaurant (FB), getting peeved at a bug!

Why couldn’t he annoy someone else. There were twenty other people there. Why me?!

The meal came, and boy was it good! It was one of my favorites, Chicken Piccatta. I especially love that buttery lemon sauce. So rich, so good!

That fly…that pesky little fly, made a low “fly by” coming in between me and my chicken piccatta.

Oh, he shouldn’t have done that!

Without even thinking, I gave a short burst of breath, knocking the little bug into my plate. There he was captured in the buttery lemon sauce of death!

I watched him struggle for just a moment, enjoying the torment of my tormentor. Finally, I picked him up out of the sauce, holding this annoyance up into the light. I looked closely, gloatingly over him. Finally, I covered him in an extra napkin, and put him out of my misery.

Smug and satisfied, I began to chew on my very next bite of chicken piccatta.

Then it hit me…

I just knocked a fly into my food!

I lost my appetite.

When was the last time you did something with unintended consequences?

Tim

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